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What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

09.06.2025 02:23

What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

Further Freud has given 5 stages of personality development::

Trust me when we were filthy rich, I was ashamed of our affluence and my mother noticed this and always treated me with huge respect as if I m some saint.

Electra means a daughters sexual attraction towards father.

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My friend , i m too emotional but trust me I don’t fear anything, too stable and happy in my own company.

Freud gave concepts of “”Oedipus complex”” and Electra .

Love u genuinely.

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But my parents never discouraged me to do experiments as a child.

My parents use to get transferred but our relationship with our childhood helpers always remained in tact .

latent stage

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phallic stage - child experiences pleasure by fondling genitals.

Trust me I m a huge fan of Freud as I have personally experienced all those things.

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Not only this, I was too good in football and hockey . My dad had his residence, office and a swimming pool in his residential complex. Swimming pool used to get open for public only between 10 am to 7 pm or 8 pm. So we as a family would swim in clean water at night or early in morning.I still remember the the name of caretaker of pool which was Nanku and he really loved us all as my parents were too honest, humble and down to earth. My father suffered a lot because of his extreme honesty and his being against corruption of entire system but he never feared. U know pesticides and insecticide against crops were showered through a helicopter 🚁 and this helicopter used to get parked in my mother’s residence. It’s long ago and there use to be huge vacant areas. I as a kid, would take a ride of helicopter almost everyday initially but later it became too boring and I preferred playing than anything else plus studying.

dear wSG ; I miss most of my childhood as “” as a child, u are a clean state and lot can be written on it.

But now, I m an introvert, have become unfit in society as people are too shallow and materialistic.

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Anal stage - derived pleasure by withholding and expelling faces. It’s a stage of toilet training as well. Inadequate toilet training leads to overly orderly or many OCD are also related.

you can say I was against inequality and a deep thinker as a child .

“”yes, I don’t miss climbing tress, playing with mud, fighting with friends, teasing people etc as I was too naughty as a child and was an extrovert””

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but as adults we become prisoners of norms, values, ambiguous laws etc and “” all our creativity goes into Dustbin.

i would bombard my parents with too many questions like why “ bhajno and sheela “ don’t wear better clothes; why baba Nihal Singh is so poor. He was the one who loved me madly.i still remember 7 more names but….?

Again I feel “ knowledge is not power, it’s a curse”

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“””death of creativity in family.”””

adolescent stage

where are people who are extremely well read but don’t have a single book displayed in drawing room ?

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Trust me wsg, we as a whole family were too simple people and most people in those times were innocent , unlettered, rustic but in a positive way as they were child like.

Right from my childhood, I had huge love for poor and I would always insist my parents to help them as much as they can.

perhaps this is the reason; I m too sensitive, cry when some song is too good or some poetry, or some unbelievable dialogue etc

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

Oedipus - means a sons sexual attraction towards mother.

Trust me people are jealous of Freud and 3 or 4 other great thinkers otherwise we would have found many extraordinary explanations of intriguing questions about human nature.

I would catch frogs, I will go in wild and play with birds, 🐜 ants , dogs, rabbits and in close observation of some helpers; I would even watch closely snakes etc

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My parents believed in equality of human beings so the helpers in our life were our family members and I was raised and kissed etc by not so clean helpers and my parents always encouraged them not to feel bad about ur caste etc and these 2 children ( me plus my elder brother )are urs.

I don’t have energy please, to go in further details as a whole book of 200 pages can easily be written as it’s too amazing observations of Freud.

I hope u will fathom out from where I m coming from ?

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you tell me my friend, where do I find people who appreciate deep poetry or some play ; or who love clutter free life ( all want huge collection of everything )

You can not imagine in ur wildest dreams how much love I had for poor and farmers of our area.

Dear friend, sorry for being immodest, but since I was a gifted child 👶, along with having civil servant parents, I had all the facilities at my disposal. Before the age of 10, I became almost sub junior champion in badminton 🏸, swimming, and 🏏 cricket.

How did my ex move on very fast?

Family is the first institution that kills all creativity as parents don’t allow the child to do whatever he or she likes.

u won’t believe I can easily recall my experiences when I was just 2 years old. I remember almost everything.

Oral stage - child derived pleasure by sucking nipples etc and those who are not properly breast fed , they get fixated at oral stage and as adults indulge in lots of eating, smoking, chew gums etc . I was breast fed for 3.6 years. Those who are long breast fed , grow up as good human beings as they develop trust for humanity. They also develop immunity against diseases etc

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I don’t find people who are on the same page with me.

“ where ignorance is a bliss it’s folly to be wise “ this situation happens with me all the time.

As a 3 or 4 year kid, I use to gaze at breasts of our female helpers. My mother knew child psychology.

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i love solitude and hardly talk for days.